九言 | 先爱自己，才能爱别人。

将生活嚼得有滋有味，把日子过得活色生香，往往靠的不只是嘴巴，还要有一颗浸透人间烟火的心。

Chewing life with flavor and making it lively often relies not only on the mouth, but also on a heart soaked in the world's fireworks.

先爱自己，才能爱别人。

Love yourself first, then love others.

到了某个年纪之后真正能让你走远的都是自律，积极和勤奋。

After reaching a certain age, what can truly make you go far is self-discipline, positivity, and diligence.

一个知识越贫乏的人，越是拥有一种莫名其妙的勇气和自豪感。

The poorer a person's knowledge, the more they possess inexplicable courage and pride.

普通的人生也许就是带着瑕疵与遗憾，我们并不圆满，但是我们要心怀对圆满的向往。

Ordinary life may be full of flaws and regrets. We may not be perfect, but we must have a longing for perfection in our hearts.

人性的复杂，让我们每个人都无法充分了解自己，更遑论他人。

The complexity of human nature makes it difficult for each of us to fully understand ourselves, let alone others.

没有人可以和生活讨价还价，所以只要活着，就一定要努力。

No one can bargain with life, so as long as you are alive, you must work hard.

人和人之间舒服的关系，是可以一直不说话，也可以随时说话。

A comfortable relationship between people is the ability to remain silent or speak at any time.

那些因舍而空出的，必有更好的东西来填补。

Those who are left empty due to giving up must have better things to fill.