九言 | 岁逢夏至，一年过半。享岁月静好，愿流年清欢。

人性的恶，就是见不得别人过得比自己好。有些人的恨是没有原因的，你的优秀、你的天赋、你的善良和幸福都是原罪。

The evil of human nature is the inability to see others live better than oneself. Some people's hatred has no reason, your excellence, talent, kindness, and happiness are all original sins.

给别人第二次机会，就像给他第二颗子弹，弥补他第一枪没把你打死。

Giving someone a second chance is like giving them a second bullet to make up for not killing you with their first shot.

每一次克制自己，就意味着比以前更强大。

Every time you restrain yourself, it means you are stronger than before.

不想做的事，可以不做，不想见的人，可以不见。你的人生不是用来讨好别人，而是用来善待自己。

Things you don't want to do can be avoided, and people you don't want to see can be avoided. Your life is not meant to please others, but to treat yourself well.

越是不顺的时候，越要沉住气，认清势，放弃幻想，少点以为，多点作为；做足够多的努力，才能让自己有足够多的选择。

The more difficult it is, the more it is to remain calm, recognize the situation, give up illusions, think less, and act more; Make enough effort to have enough choices.

教养，真的不是你读过多少书。所以现实中，有的人很有文化，但是很没教养。

Education is really not about how many books you have read. So in reality, some people are very cultured, but very uneducated.

成熟并不是看懂事情，而是理解人性。

Maturity is not about understanding things, but understanding human nature.

人有退路，就有些许安全感。等到哪一天，你真没了退路，你就发现眼前哪条路都能走，也能通。

People have a sense of security when they have a way out. One day, when you really have no way out, you will find that any path in front of you can be taken and also accessible.

岁逢夏至，一年过半。享岁月静好，愿流年清欢。

Every year falls on the Summer Solstice, and half of the year has passed. Enjoy the tranquility of time, may the fleeting years be joyful.